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The traditional image of a leader is that of a person who tells people what to do and how. Many people believe that being a leader means knowing…

Ronke Babajide

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Woman in IT, Natural Scientist, Life Coach, Speaker, Podcaster, Founder. Writes about Work, Tech, Science, Personal Growth & Life

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