Published inModern Women·PinnedMember-onlyWhy So Many Men Are Suffering From Schrödinger’s PatriarchyMen are looking for the perks of patriarchy without being able to fulfill the duties that come with it — I love spending time on TikTok. Not because I particularly enjoy watching young people dance but because it’s the place where you’ll find the most eloquent feminist voices. I love watching these modern young women taking down inane male talking points in 60 seconds. At the moment, I’m watching a…Feminism5 min readFeminism5 min read
Published inBitchy·1 day agoMember-onlyHow To Make Your Conference More Diverse by Inviting Imaginary Women ExpertsDid DevTernity just start a hot, new trend in the diversity and inclusion space? — Everyone knows it by now. We don’t have enough women working in the tech industry. As a senior woman in the field, managing a team of men, I see it every day. There are many reasons for this, but none of them is that women are not interested in tech…Women In Tech5 min readWomen In Tech5 min read
Published inBitchy·1 day agoMember-onlyLife Lessons I Learned from Dating a Friendly MisogynistWhat I learned from spending 12 years with a man who believed in traditional gender roles — “You want ME to do the dishes?” he asked, incredulous. “Sure, I cooked dinner for us, didn’t I?” I replied, wondering what was so surprising about my request. I was in my second semester at uni. My new boyfriend — let’s call him Sam — and I had just finished…Feminism8 min readFeminism8 min read
Published inBitchy·5 days agoMember-onlyWhy the Myth of the Man-Hating Feminist Is Both Popular and UntrueThe misandry myth is used to scare both men and women away from the discussion about gender equality — The internet is full of “nice” men complaining that women won’t date them even though they’ve treated them really well. Apparently, all women are just looking for assholes or rich men. And then there are the “alpha” men on the podcasts, aka the assholes. …Feminism5 min readFeminism5 min read
Published inBitchy·Nov 13Member-onlyWhy “Back to the Office” Hurts Women More Than MenForcing women to come back to the office seriously impacts their quality of life and employers' ability to find the workers they need — Two days ago, WeWork filed for bankruptcy, and I felt quite a bit of schadenfreude. Why? In 2021, WeWork CEO Sandeep Mathrani was one of the first to publicly vilify remote workers. In the Wall Street Journal, he described people who want to work from home as the least engaged…Feminism6 min readFeminism6 min read
Published inThe Point of View·Nov 7Member-onlyHow Our New Exciting AI Tools Are Accelerating the Enshittification of Our WorldWhy AI tools are making our world more boring and more biased — When I come across a text that begins with the words “in these complex times” or “in an ever-evolving world,” I immediately move on. 99% of the time, this introduction is followed by AI-generated crap. Have you noticed? AI loves to use more or less vomit-inducing versions of these intros…Artificial Intelligence6 min readArtificial Intelligence6 min read
Published inBitchy·Nov 1Member-onlyDo You Think We Should Always Save Women and Children First?Why do we stress women’s and children’s survival in emergencies over men’s? — In the context of the ongoing crisis, there is something I can’t stop thinking about. News outlets are covering the current horrific crisis and the rising civilian death toll. But with all the atrocities, they don’t just mention the number. …Women6 min readWomen6 min read
Published inBitchy·Oct 24Member-onlyWhy Our World Would Stop Working if Women Stopped Working for FreeMen want you to believe they’re the ones keeping the world afloat, but have you ever wondered what would happen if women refused to do underpaid and free labor? — Red-pill men love to ask the question, “What do you think would happen if there were no men?” The correct answer, according to them, is that everything would collapse, and women would be left helpless. I saw the most outlandish version of the women can’t survive without men mindset on…Women5 min readWomen5 min read
Published inBitchy·Oct 18Member-onlyWhy Reducing Feminism to Gender Equality Completely Misses the PointMost people believe that feminists are fighting for equal rights for women. We’re not. — The funniest thing I’ve heard anyone say in the last few days was, “I’m not a feminist. I’m a gender equalitarian.” I guess they thought that was a more progressive point of view. It’s interesting how some people — mostly white beneficiaries of this late-stage capitalist hellscape we’ve created —…Society7 min readSociety7 min read
Published inBitchy·Oct 12Member-onlyHow the First Truly Female Crash Test Dummy Makes Driving Safer for WomenBecause cars are built for men, women currently have a 17% higher risk of dying from a car crash — For the last 60 years, car manufacturers have been working hard to make cars safer. Airbags, ABS, and collision sensors, among other improvements, have all made driving safer. But there’s a catch: Women aren’t as safe in cars as men. …Women6 min readWomen6 min read